We're so caught up in society's expectation of us that we disregard our own personal desires.We're too busy trying to decipher what the other person is thinking that we don't listen to what we actually want.
Let's strip sexual activity of all it's damaging implications and bring it back to what it is: just sex. And if that pep talk isn't enough, how about this statistic?
We've done the research and here it is, straight-up: There's nothing wrong with having sex on the first date. A 2012 Singles in America survey found that 55 percent of singles reporting having had sex on the first date (66 percent of men; 44 percent of women).
Sexual compatibility is important part of a relationship.
By having sex on the first date, you get to establish that special connection early on.
If you're confident and enjoy what you're doing, then they'll be more inclined to return for seconds.