If you try to change him into a nice guy, a couple things might happen, none of which you will particularly enjoy: Play with the polarity.
If you like bad boys, then there's a good chance you are not a bad boy and that's why you like them.
Bad boys are fun, exciting and hot, but they have good hearts and ultimately care enough to not want to hurt you, even if they aren't looking to cater to your every whim. They tend to be mean, totally insensitive and often downright abusive.
Men tell one another to use it as a way to keep from looking desperate. "I laugh when guys tell me to do this," says Jason, 35.
"Why would I want to wait three days for her to lose interest or meet someone else?
The differences between you and your man generate the attraction between the two of you, so instead of trying to neutralize that charge, embrace it.
If you guys have a great time, you're both left wanting more." —Greg G." /"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.
There's something about bad boys that's almost universally appealing.